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Lubrication, Arousal & Dry Vaginas

I’m le tired when it comes to people taking credit for what happens about my body.🍓
💦Your vaginal wetness is less of an indicator to your possible state of arousal, and more of an indicator of your physical health.
🌊We don’t “get wet” for them, or cum for them, or permiss others to take credit for the pleasure we allow our bodies to experience. You allow them the experience to witness your pleasure, that YOU open your heart, mind, body and soul to share. #ownyourorgasm
☔️Yes. Vaginal secretions are a potential outcome of arousal, but it isn’t necessarily a signal that you are. Too many women feel self-conscious about their #wetness especially as they age or cyclically with hormonal fluctuations. Am I too wet? Am I too dry? Why is my body never good enough or doing what it’s “supposed” to be doing? I see vaginas cause harm to themselves because they feel ashamed, won’t use proper lubricant, get wrapped up in insignificant mating rituals, then have a shitty sexy time anyways. We give our power away too much, from an arousal context and we need to talk about it!
❤️Love you, #sohard #carlencosta #theeverydaygoddess
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